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What I hate about being an INFJ

You probably already know that you are an INFJ, and that you have quite a unique personality. Only 2% of the population is considered INFJ!! But what exactly does this mean? are the weaknesses to being an INFJ? In this post we will look at the negative aspects of being an INFJ. It should be noted that every type of personality will come with its advantages and disadvantages, knowing what our weak points are can help us identify them and change them if necessary. INFJs generally get their energy alone (Introversion), focus…

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3 de November de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships

Signs that you are a boring person 🚩

To be in the middle of a story and for someone to start yawning. Looking at the clock. Or perhaps checking their phone to see if they have any new messages. For them not to ask a follow up question… or maybe they don't seem like they want to hang out with you... Are all these signs that you're a boring person? For a long time that was one of my biggest fears and insecurities. As an introvert I have fairly quiet hobbies: reading a book, listening intently to a podcast, staying…

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30 de October de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships

How to avoid awkward silences

On any given day, you enter the elevator with your head down, headphones on, probably scrolling through your phone and thinking about what song you want to listen to to start the day in a good mood. Just as the doors are closing, you make eye contact with your neighbor who pretends to run before the doors close. In your mind you imagine smiling and flicking back at him as the doors close. But in reality, you stick your hand out to make the doors open so that your dear neighbor can…

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29 de October de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships

How to have a conversation with anyone: listening

Introverts in general have a very special characteristic: we know how to listen. The problem is that some of us do not take advantage of it in out conversations. I would always be afraid of not knowing what to say and having awkward silences, but why did I have fluid conversations with my family without any problem? I knew what to say at all times, there were no awkward silences, and I was comfortable. However, with people outside my family I would get stuck or I could not think of topics of…

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29 de October de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships / Social Anxiety / Work and Career

How to end a conversation without being rude

If you find yourself not knowing how to end a conversation, welcome to the club. The truth is that whether you are an introvert or not, having a conversation is one of the most complex human activities: we are constantly receiving and sending stimuli, trying to understand the message, tone of voice, emotions and body language. According to a research by Harvard University, the most difficult part of a conversation is ending it. In this post I will give you some tips and tricks you can use to escape from uncomfortable trivial…

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27 de October de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships / Work and Career

The undervalued power of being alone

What if I told you that knowing how to be alone is a superpower? Perhaps you would find it funny, especially if you are an introverted person like me. Maybe is because being introverted is quite undervalued in the society in which we live, to the point where those of us who do enjoy being alone come to feel "ashamed" of this. However, making time to spend by yourself every day is something we should all start doing. All of humanity's problems come from man's inability to sit quietly in a room…

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26 de October de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships

Reasons why introverts are so attractive 😻

Most of the television shows that I watched when I was growing up had as their protagonist a character with charisma, extroverted and with always something to say. But what about the most reserved people? the quiet ones of the classroom? For this type of personality a very specific role is assigned: the bullied, the nerd, or even... the killer. Outside of the screen, can introverts be attractive? The answer is yes. We have many qualities that can be attractive to other personalities, to introverts like ourselves or extroverts. In this post…

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25 de October de 2022

Introversion

Best gifts for introverted women this Christmas 2022 (from cheap to expensive) 🎄

If you are lacking of ideas for gifts this Christmas take a look at this list. You can buy all of the products on Amazon which makes it really convenient. Show an introvert how much you know them by choosing any of these! Leather Journal This leather journal is the perfect gift for an introvert. Sometimes we are not the best communicators but we still need to vent, write down our thoughts, and goals. It is an affordable gift that you can make even more special by writing down on the first…

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24 de October de 2022

Introversion / Work and Career

Being an au pair when you are shy and introvert. Tips and experience.

Being an au pair can be one of the best decisions of your life to learn a language, take off from the nest and discover new places. You have hardly any expenses, you receive a weekly pocket money and you have a lot of free time to explore the city and socialize. I have been an au pair 4 times in different cities in England, so I have extensive experience that I would like to share with those of you who are considering embarking on this adventure but who are hesitant because…

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20 de October de 2022

Introversion / Love and relationships

Introvert and loneliness, do you feel alone?

Introverts need to be alone, not feel lonely. Loneliness is very beautiful… when you have someone to tell it to.Gustavo Adolfo Becquer Difference in terms: being alone vs loneliness There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. While the former is a fact and somewhat objective, the latter is a state that lasts over time and depends more on each person. We are all alone at some point in our days, but that does not mean that we are lonely. Loneliness is subjective. For example, if you are a…

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19 de October de 2022